Twostudentsstartedquarrellingatschool．Onestudentshouteddirtywordsattheotherandafightbegan．Whatcanbedonetostopfightslikethisatschool?Insomeschoolsthedisputantssitdownwithpeermediators(同龄调解人)．Peermediatorsarestudentswithspecialtraininginthiskindofproblems．
Peermediatorshelpthedisputantstotalkinafriendlyway．Herearesomeofthewaystheyuse:
1．Putwhatyouthinkclearlybutdon'tsayanythingtohurttheother．Beginwith“Ifeel…”insteadof“Youalways…”
2．Listencarefullytotheotherpersonwhoisspeaking．Don'tstoptheotherperson'swords．
3．Keeplookingattheotherperson'seyeswhenheorshetalks．
4．Trytoseetheotherperson'ssideoftheproblem．
5．Neverputanyonedown．Sayingthingslike“Youarefoolish”makesthetalkdifficult．
6．Trytofindaresultthatmakesbothpeoplehappy．
Peermediatorsneverdecidetheresultorthewinner．Theydon'tdecidewhoisrightandwhoiswrong．Insteadtheyhelpthetwostudentstofindtheirownwin-winresult．Awin-winresultcanmakeeveryonefeelgood．
Peermediators'workisoftensuccessfuljustbecauseitgetspeopletotalktoeachother．Andgettingpeopletotalktoeachotheristhefirststepinfindingawin-winresult．
1．Theunderlinedworddisputantsreferstothestudents________．
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A．whoshoutdirtywords
B．wholikefighting
C．whoquarrel
D．whoarelazy
2．Whenthereisafightatschool________．
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A．thepeermediatorshelpthedisputantstalkinafriendlyway
B．thepeermediatorsdecidewhothewinneris
C．thetwostudentswhoquarreldecidewhothewinneris
D．thetwostudentssitdownandlistentothepeermediators
3．Peermediators'workis________．
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A．togivelessonstodisputants
B．tohelpfindawaytomakebothsideshappy
C．tofindoutwhostartsaquarrel
D．togivedisputantssomespecialtraining
4．DuringthetalkifyousayYouarelazyorIfeelangry________．
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A．theotherpersonwillbeunhappy
B．theotherpersonwillh
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