Ahighschoolhistoryteacheroncetoldus“ifyoumakeoneclosefriendinschoolyouwillbemostfortunate.Atruefriendissomeonewhostayswithyouforlife.”__1___teachesthathewasright.Goodfriendshipisjustnoteasily__2___.
Itispossiblethatwesimplydonotstayinoneplacelongenoughfor__3___friendshipto__4__.Howevertherecanbe_5__disagreementontheneedforeachofustothinkcarefullyaboutthekindoffriendshipwewant.
Tomostofusfriendshipsareconsideredveryimportantbutweneedtohaveclearinour_6__thekindsoffriendshipwewant.Aretheytobecloseor__7_atarm’slength?Dowewantto__8_ourselvesordowewanttowalkonthesurface?Forsomepeoplemanyfriendshipsonthesurfaceare_9__enough---andthat’sright.Butatsomepointweneedto_10__thatourexpectationsarethesameasourfriends’expectations.Thesharingof_11__experience_12__ourtearsaswellasourdarkdreamsisthesurestwaytodeepenfriendships.Butit__13_beundertaken(进行)slowlyandcarriedononlyifthereare_14__ofinterestandactioninreturn.
Whataresomeofthe_15__offriendship?Thegreatestistheattractiontoexpecttoomuchtoosoon.Deeprelationships__16_time.Another“majordifficulty”istheselfishnesstothinkone“possesses”theotherincludinghistimeandattentionSimilarlyfriendships__17___actionsinreturnin__18__wordsyoumustgiveasmuchasyoutake.Finallythereisaquestionoftakingcareof.Unlessyouspend__19__timetogethertalkingonthephonewritinglettersdoingthingstogetherfriendshipswilldie__20__
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