A:Inyourmind,whatdoyouthinkofthereasonwhygenerationgapappears?
B:First,theyoungandtheirparentsoftenfailtotalkwitheachother.Evensometimestheyheareachother,buttheydonotputtheminheart.Atthemostoftime,theydonotthinktheothers'idearsover,instead,usuallytheywillletthemalone.Bydoingthis,theysendfalsemessagetoeachother.Astheresult,theirtwodifferentworldsmeetheadonandthegenerationgapappears.
A:Oh,Isee.Howtobridgethegeneration?Whatshouldwecandoaboutit?
B:Fortheparents,theyshouldtreattheirchildrenasfreemennotchildren.Afterall,theyareyoungandtheyhavetheirownideas.Whethertheyarewrongornot,parentsshouldexpecttheirchildren'sidears.Iftheyaretrulywrong,parentsshouldhavepatienceandmakechildrensrealizetheirmistakesslowly.
A:That'sright.Iagreewithyou.
B:Thus,thechildrenmayaccepttheirparents'suggestionandgetridoftheirshortness.Ontheotherhand,ifparentstreattheirchildrenrudely,theymaygetintotrouble.Thereasonisverysimple,childrenshatethebadmeasuresparentstakeanddefeatthem.Inthisway,thechildrenmaygoevenfurther.
A:Now,IthinkIunderstandyou.Youwanttosaythatparentsshouldhavepatienceandrespecttheirchildrens.Allright?
B:That'sreallywhatIwanttosaytoexpressmyself.Asknown,ifthechildrenarenotwrong,parentsshouldn'tbugthem,justletthemdowhattheywanttoandacceptthemifpossible.Evenifparentscan'tacceptthem,theyshouldchoosetoexpectthemandgivethechildrenspaceoftheirown.
A:Iknowit.ButI'mafairdthat'snotaneasythingtosovle.
B:Ofcourse,thegenerationgapisreallydifficulttomeetwith.
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