Third-CultureKids
Didyougrowupinoneculture,yourparentscamefromanother,andyouarenowlivinginatotallydifferentcountry?Ifso,thenyouareathird-culturekid!
Theterm"third-culturekid"(orTCK) wascoinedinthe1960sbyDr.Ruth.ShefirstcameacrossthisphenomenonwhensheresearchedNorthAmericanchildrenlivinginIndia.Caughtbetweentwocultures,theyformtheirveryown.(71)___ About90percentofthemhaveauniversitydegree,while40percentpursueapostgraduateordoctordegree.Theyusuallybenefitfromtheirinterculturalexperience,whichhelpsthemtogrowintosuccessfulacademicsandprofessionals.
(72)___Infactmanyhardshipsmayarisefromthisphenomenon.Athird-culturekidmaynotbeabletoadaptthemselvescompletelytotheirnewsurroundingsasexpected.Instead,theymayalwaysremainanoutsiderindifferenthostcultures.Max,forexample,experiencedthisfundamentalfeelingofstrangenessthroughouthislifeasathird-culturekid.(73)___Whilethiscanbeawaytocreateanetworkoffriendsallaroundtheworld,itcanbedifficultforathird-culturekidlikeMaxtomaintainclosefriendshipsandrelationships.
Forathird-culturekid,itisofteneasiertomovetoanewforeigncountrythantoreturntotheir"home"country.AfterlivinginAustraliaandSouthKoreaformanyyears,LouisfinallyreturnedtoTurkeyasateenager.Butshefeltoutofplacewhenshereturnedtothecountrywhereshewasborn.(74)___Shedidnotsharethesamevaluesasherfriends'evenyearsaftergoingbackhome.
Whileathird-culturekidmustletgooftheiridentityasforeignerwhenhe/shereturns,thehomecountrycanprovetobemoreforeignthananythinghe/shecameacrossbefore.Thepeergrouptheyfacedoesnotmatchtheidealizedimagechildrenhaveof"home".(75)___
Asapartofthegrowing"culture",TCKsmayfinditagreatchallengeforthemtofeelathomeinmanyplaces.
A.Yetbeingathird-culturekidisnotalwayseasy.
B.Ingeneral,theyoftenreachexcellentacademicresults.
C.Thisoftenmakesithardforthemtoformtheirownidentity.
D.However,theirparentscanhelpthemseetheopportunitiesofamobilelifestyle.