Untillateinthe20thcenturymostAmericansspenttimewithpeopleofgenerations.Nowmid-agedAmericansmaynotkeepintouchwitholdpeopleuntiltheyareoldthemselves.That’sbecausewegrouppeoplebyage.Weputourthree-year-oldstogetherinday-carecenterour13-year-oldsinschoolandsportsactivitiesandour80-year-oldsinsenior-citizenhomes.Why?
Weliveawayfromtheoldformanyreasons:youngpeoplesometimesavoidtheoldtogetridoffearsforaginganddying.Itismuchhardertowatchsomeonewelovedisappearbeforeoureyes.Sometimesit’ssohardthatwestayawayfromthepeoplewhoneedusmost.
Fortunatelysomeofushavefoundourwaytotheold.Andwehavediscoveredthattheyoftensavetheyoung.
Areportermovedherfamilyontoablockfilledwitholdpeople.Atfirstherchildrenweredisappointed.Butthereporterbakedbananabreadfortheneighborsandhadherchildrendeliveritandvisitthem.Soonthechildrenhadmanynewfriendswithwhomtheysharedfoodstoriesandprojects.“Mychildrenhaveneverbeenlesslonely”thereportersaid.
Theyounginturnsavetheold.OnceIwasinaresthomewhenavisitorshowedupwithababy.Shewasimmediatelysurrounded.Peoplewhohadn’tgottenoutofbedinaweeksuddenlywereringingforawheelchair.Eventhosewhohadseemedasleepwakeuptowatchthechild.Babieshaveanastonishingpowertocomfortandcure.
Grandparentsareaspecialcase.Theygivegrandchildrenafeelingofsecurityandcontinuity.Asmyhusbandputit“mygrandparentsgavemeadeepsensethatthingswouldturnoutrightintheend.”
Grandchildrenspeakofattentiontheydon’tgetfromworriedparents.“Myparentswerealwaystellingmetohurryupandmygrandparentstoldmetoslowdown”onefriendsaid.Ateachertoldmeshecantellwhichpupilshaverelationshipswithgrandparents:theyarequietercalmermoretrusting.
NowinanAmericanfamilypeoplecanfindthat____.
A. childrenneverlivewiththeirparents
B.grandchildrenaresupportedbytheirgrandparents
C. agedpeoplearesupportedbytheirgrandchildren
D. notallworkingpeoplelivewiththeirparents
Thereasonwhyoldpeopleareleftalonemaybethat____.
A. theolddon’tl