Haveyourparentsevercaughtyoumisbehaving--fightingwithpeers,cominghomelateorplayingcomputergameswhenyouweresupposedtobedoingyourhomework?Howdidtheyreact?Didtheytrytotalktoyouorjustyellatyou?
Parentsusedtorelyonphysicalpunishmentslikepushingorspanking(打屁股)tocontroltheirchildren'sbehavior,whichhasbeenproventobeveryharmful.Therefore,mostparentsnowchoosetosimplyyell,thinkingthatlanguageprobablywon'thurtasmuch.Butisthatreallyso?
Usingharshwordssuchas"lazy"or"stupid"toinsultteenagersisjustasharmfulashitting,accordingtoanewstudycarriedoutattheUniversityofPittsburgh,US."Itcannotreduceorcorrecttheirproblembehavior,"saidProfessorMing-TeWang,leaderofthestudy."Onthecontrary,itmakesitworse."
Thestudy'ssubjectswere976two-parentfamilieswithteenagechildren.Researchersaskedthekidsabouttheirbehaviorproblemswhilequestioningparentsabouthowoftentheyhadcursed(咒骂)oryelledattheirkids.
Nearlyhalfoftheparentsadmittedthatthey'dshoutedattheirchildreninthepastyear.Researchersnotedthatthekidswhoseparentsusedmoreharshwordsexperiencedmorebehaviorproblemsafterwards,includingfighting,stealing,lyingaswellassymptomsofdepression(抑郁).
"Adolescenceisaverysensitiveperiodwhenkidsaretryingtodeveloptheirself-identities.Whenyouyell,itmakesthemfeeltheyarenotcapable,thattheyareworthlessanduseless,"Wangsaid."Thismayexplainwhysomanyparentssaythatnomatterhowloudtheyshout,theirteenagersdon'tlisten."
Whileharshyellingcanstopbadbehaviorinthemoment,itdoesn'tteachchildrentobehavehowparentswantthemto.Whatparentsneedtodoispraisetheirchildrenforgoodbehavior.Ifparentsreallyneedtopunishtheirkids,theyshouldtrythingsliketakingawaysmartphonesandremindingthemthatgoodbehaviorwillgetthemback.
67.Whatdoestheunderlinedword"It"inParagraph3referto?___
A.Punishingteenagers.
B.Controllingchildren'sbehavior.
C.Talkingtochildren.
D.Usingharshwords.
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