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Haveyourparentsevercaughtyoumisbehaving--fightingwithpeers,cominghomelateorplayingcomputergameswhenyouweresupposedtobedoingyourhomework?Howdidtheyreact?Didtheytrytotalktoyouorjustyellatyou?

Parentsusedtorelyonphysicalpunishmentslikepushingorspanking(打屁股)tocontroltheirchildren'sbehavior,whichhasbeenproventobeveryharmful.Therefore,mostparentsnowchoosetosimplyyell,thinkingthatlanguageprobablywon'thurtasmuch.Butisthatreallyso?

Usingharshwordssuchas"lazy"or"stupid"toinsultteenagersisjustasharmfulashitting,accordingtoanewstudycarriedoutattheUniversityofPittsburgh,US."Itcannotreduceorcorrecttheirproblembehavior,"saidProfessorMing-TeWang,leaderofthestudy."Onthecontrary,itmakesitworse."

Thestudy'ssubjectswere976two-parentfamilieswithteenagechildren.Researchersaskedthekidsabouttheirbehaviorproblemswhilequestioningparentsabouthowoftentheyhadcursed(咒骂)oryelledattheirkids.

Nearlyhalfoftheparentsadmittedthatthey'dshoutedattheirchildreninthepastyear.Researchersnotedthatthekidswhoseparentsusedmoreharshwordsexperiencedmorebehaviorproblemsafterwards,includingfighting,stealing,lyingaswellassymptomsofdepression(抑郁).

"Adolescenceisaverysensitiveperiodwhenkidsaretryingtodeveloptheirself-identities.Whenyouyell,itmakesthemfeeltheyarenotcapable,thattheyareworthlessanduseless,"Wangsaid."Thismayexplainwhysomanyparentssaythatnomatterhowloudtheyshout,theirteenagersdon'tlisten."

Whileharshyellingcanstopbadbehaviorinthemoment,itdoesn'tteachchildrentobehavehowparentswantthemto.Whatparentsneedtodoispraisetheirchildrenforgoodbehavior.Ifparentsreallyneedtopunishtheirkids,theyshouldtrythingsliketakingawaysmartphonesandremindingthemthatgoodbehaviorwillgetthemback.

67.Whatdoestheunderlinedword"It"inParagraph3referto?___

A.Punishingteenagers.

B.Controllingchildren'sbehavior.

C.Talkingtochildren.

D.Usingharshwords.

68.Wecankn

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  DACB   67 D 猜测词义题. 根据文章第三段Usingharshwordssuchas"lazy"or"stupid"toinsultteenagersisjustasharmfulashitting可知使用严厉的词侮辱青少年和打他们是一样有害,故选D.   68 A 细节题.根据文章倒数第二段Thismayexplainwhysomanyparentssaythatnomatterhowloudtheyshout,theirteenagersdon'tlisten."可知无论父母喊的声音多大,青少年就是不听,也就是说孩子们不会改变他们的行为,故选A.   69 C 细节题.根据文章倒数第二段Whenyouyell,itmakesthemfeeltheyarenotcapable,thattheyareworthlessanduseless可知严厉的词语会让青少年感觉他们没有能力,没有价值,并且无用,故选C.   70 B 细节题.根据文章最后一段Whatparentsneedtodoispraisetheirchildrenforgoodbehavior.可知父母需要做的是因为好的行为要夸奖孩子们,本段主要讲的是如何应对孩子的坏行为,故选B
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