Ifyouthinkyouaretooshyandwanttobealittlebitbraver,justtrythefollowingthings:
Beopentoothers.Tellpeopleyouareshy.Thereisnoneedtohideit.Whentheygettoknowyouareashykid,theywillunderstandyoubetter.Thisalsohelpsyoufeelmorecomfortableintalks.
Trytosmilemore.Whenyousmile,peoplethinkyouarefriendlyandeasytotalkwith.Rememberthatotherpeoplehavefeelings,too;andmostpeoplewillstayawayfromanangry-lookingface.
Learntobeagoodtalker.Ifyoufindithardtostartaconversation,saysomethingniceaboutpeoplearoundyou.Thinkabouthowgreatyoufeelwhensomeonesayssomethingnicetoyou.Doesn’titmakeyouwanttokeeptalkingtothatperson?
Getyourattentionelsewhere.Thinkmoreaboutwaystoenjoypartiesorgames.Don’twastetimeworryingaboutyourlookorwhetherpeoplelikeyouornot.Youwillbecomerelaxedandfindit’snotsohardtotalkwithothers.
Takeonesmallstepatatime.Eachtimewhenyousay“Hi!”orsmileatsomeone,saytoyourself“Youcanmakeit.”Keeptryingandonedayyou’llneverfeelshywhenyoutalktoothers.
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