Whatdoyouthinkaboutthefirstimpression,well,wearealwaysbetoldnottojudgepeoplewiththeirappearances,butwhentherearetwostrangers,oneismoreprettyorhandsomethantheother,whichonewillyouchoosetotalkwith?Perhapstheexampleisnotsogood,thefirstimpressionIrefertosurelyinvolvesthetemperamentandthestyleofconversationetc,appearanceisjustthemostdirectmodality.
Firstimpressionsarehalfthebattle,itistrueinmanyfieldsandoccasionsinourmoderntimes,whenyoumakenewfriendsandhaveinterviewsandsoon,youmayfindclearlyhowgreatimportanceitis.Ofcourse,Ihavenointentiontoignoresomethingessentialandimmanent,Imeanone’sknowledge,mentality,connotation…,theyarealsoimportant,andtheywillbetastedoutbyfurthercommunion.Isawthemovietwiceafewdaysago.Inthebeginning,themaindramatispersonae,ElizabethandDarcy,bothjudgedeachotherbythebadfirstimpression,andtheyweredistantfromeachotherbecauseoftheirprejudice.However,theseriesofeventswhichtheybothexperiencedgavethemtheopportunitytounderstandoneanotherandthetimetoreconciletheirfeelingsforeachother.Thus,theirmutualunderstandingisthefoundationoftheirrelationshipandwillleadthemtoapeacefulandlastingmarriage.ThisrelationshipbetweenElizabethandDarcyrevealstheimportanceofgettingtoknowone'spartnerbeforemarrying.Iherebynottodiscussabouttheunderstandingsbeforemarriage,Isupposeiftherewerenosuchchanceforthemtwotoknoweachotherfurther,whatwouldhappentothemthen?
Soitcomestomyconclusion,thefirstimpressionandfurthercommunionarebothimportant,butjustremembersometimestheformeristheentrancetothelatter.
