OnedaymanyyearsagowhenIwasworkingasapsychologistatachildren'sinstitutioninEnglandanadolescentboyshowedupinthewaitingroom.Iwentouttherewherehewas 36upanddownrestlessly.
Timworeablackraincoatthatwas 37 allthewayuptohisneck.Hisfacewaspaleandhestaredathisfeetwhilewringing(扭)hishandsnervously.Hehad 38 hisfatherasababyandhadlivedwithhismotherandgrandfathereversince.Buttheyearbeforeheturned13hisgrandfatherandmotherwerekilledinacaraccident.
IlookedatTim.Hewasvery 39 anddepressed(inlowspirits).Herefusedtotalktome.Thefirsttwotimeswe 40 Timonlysathunchedup(蜷缩)inthechairwithoutsayingaword.AshewasabouttoleaveafterthesecondvisitIputmyhandonhisshoulder.Hedidn't___41 backbuthedidn'tlookatmeeither.
"Comebacknextweekifyoulike”Isaid.I 42 abit.ThenIsaid"Iknowithurts.”
HecameandI____43____weplaychess.Henodded.AfterthatweplayedchesseveryWednesdayafternoon―in 44 andwithoutmakinganyeyecontact.It'snoteasyformeto45 inchessbutIadmitthatImadesureTimwononceortwice.
UsuallyhearrivedearliertookthechessboardandpiecesandsetthemupbeforeIevengota(n) 46 tositdown.Itseemedasifheenjoyedmy 47 .Butwhydidhe 48 lookatme?
"Perhapshesimplyneedssomeonetosharehis 49 with"Ithought.
OneafternoonTimtookoffhisraincoatandputitonthebackofthechair.Whilehewassettingupthechesspieceshisfaceseemedmore 50 andhismotionsmorelively.
SomemonthslaterIsatstaringatTim'shead 51 hewasbentoverthechessboard.Iwasthinkingabouthowlittleweknewaboutthehealing(治疗)process. 52 helookedupatme."It'syour 53 "hesaid.
AfterthatdayTimstartedtalking.
MaybeIgaveTimsomethingbutIlearnedalotfromhim.Heshowedmehowone-withoutanywords―can 54 outtoanotherperson.Allit 55 isahugashouldertocryonafriendlytouchasympatheticnature―andanearthatlistens.