Getridofstagefright
Havingstagefrightwhenyouareabouttoperform?Don’tworry,youarenotalone.Notmanypeopleknowthatevenfamousprofessionalsingersalsogetstagefrightnowandthen.BoutsofterriblestagefrightpreventedthegreatBarbaraStreisandfromperformingliveformanyyears.
Thegoodnewsisthatyoucanconquerstagefrightandgetridofitpermanently.Yes,youcanbanishthefearofperforminginfrontofyouraudience.BarbaraStreisanddid,didn’tshe?
Putitintocontext,stagefrightisonlyamentalconditionforthefearoftheunknown.Yes,itisthebasichumanfear,sortofasurvivalinstinct.Stagefrightisaverycommonaffliction.Itaffectsallsingerstovaryingdegreeswhentheygoonstagetosinginfrontofanaudience.Itisaknownfactthatmanypeoplefearpublicspeakingmorethandeath,whatmoreasingingperformance?
Therewillalwaysbemanyquestionsracingthroughyourmindbeforeeachperformancesuchas'Omigosh,Ihaveasorethroattoday,howbadlywillitaffectmysinging?WillIsingoutoftuneoroutoftime?Howwilltheaudiencereacttomyperformance?'Thisiswhenyouwillbreakoutincoldsweatandbecomefrigidwithstagefright.
Asanswerstothesequestionscannotbeknownuntilafteryourperformance,yougetevenmorestressedupwithanxietyandfearweighinheavilyonyou.Thesenegativeselftalkwillcompoundyourfearsevenfurther!
Howtoconquerstagefright
Icallthesefearsasirrationalfears.Why?Itisbecauseallyourfearsareabouteventsthatmayormaynotoccurinthefuture.Youarefearingsomethingwhichisnotevenhappeningormayonlyhappenandmostprobablywillnothappen.
Sowhyletsomethingwhichisnothappeningatallgiveyoustagefright?Hey,whyfretwhennomatterhowmuchyouwreckyourmind,youwillneverfindanyanswersuntilafteryoursingingperformance?
Stagefrightfeartriggersafightorflightresponseproducinghormonalchangesinyourbody,makingyourbodyrigid,shuttingdowndigestivesystemandincreasingyourheartrate.Thisdefinitelyisnotanidealconditionforsinging.
Byharboringthenegativethoughts,yourimaginedconditionsmayactuallybringyourstagefrightintorealityandmakeyoufreezeoveronstage.
Youdoknowthatstressandanxietiescanaffectyourvoice,personaandperformanceinadetrimentalwayandthatwillcompoundyourfearevenfurther.
Oneofthebestwaystoovercomeandconquerstagefrightistobementallyandphysicallywellprepared.Havingknownthatyouhavepracticedyoursongsandperformancethoroughlywillgiveyoutheconfidenceandresolvetotaketothestageandflauntyoursingingtalent.
Anotherwaytoovercomestagefrightistotakeyourmindoffit.Easiersaidthandone?Well,whatbetterwaytotakeyourmindawayfromyourirrationalfearsthandoingwarmingupvocalexercises.Iknowthatmanysingersdonotevenbotherwarmuptheirvocalcordsbeforeaperformance.Howcanasingersingeffortlesslywithoutwarminguptheirinstrument,inthiscase,thevocalcordproperly?
Warmingupbeforeaperformancenotonlytakesyourmindawayfromthestressandirrationalfears,italsohelpsyouhitthenoteseasierandprotectyourvocalcordfromdamages,sometimes,evenpermanentdamage.
Justasimportantaswarmingupistocooldownyourvoiceafteraperformanceasyourvocalfoldsare