Makingfriendisaskill.Likemostskills,itimproveswithpractice.Ifyouwanttomeetpeopleandmakefriends,youmustbewilling(乐意)totakesomeaction.Youmustfirstgowheretherearepeople.Youwon’tmakefriendsstayinghomealone. Joinacluborgroup,talkingwiththosewholikethesamethingsyoudoismucheasier.Orjoinsomeoneinsomeactivity.Manypeoplearenervouswhentalkingtonewpeople.Afterall,meetingstrangersmeansfacingtheunknown.Andit’shumannaturetofeelabituncomfortableabouttheunknown. Mostofourfearsaboutdealingwithnewpeoplecomefromdoubtsaboutourselves.Weimagineotherpeoplearegivinganopinionaboutus-findingustootallortooshort,toothisortoothat.Butdon’tforgetthattheymustbefeelingthesameaway.Trytoaccept(接受)yourselfasyouare,andtrytoputtheotherpersonatease(不拘束).You’llbothfeelmorecomfortable. Trytokeepself-confident(自信)evenwhenyoudon’tfeelthatwaywhenyouenteraroomfullofstrangers,suchasanewclassroom,walktall(趾高气扬)andstraight,lookdirectlyatotherpeopleandsmile.Ifyouseesomeoneyou’dliketospeakto,saysomething.Don’twaitfortheotherpersontostartaconversation. Justmeetingsomeonenewdoesnotmeanthatyouwillmakefriendswiththatperson-friendshipisbasedoneachother’slikingand“giveandtake”.Theytaketimeandeffortstodevelop.Andtherearethingsthatkeepanewfriendshipfromgrowing. 小题1:Ifyouwanttomeetpeopleandmakefriends,whatshouldyoudo? |
A.Joinacluborgroup. | B.Talkwiththosewholikethesamethings. |
C.Joinsomeoneinsomeactivity. | D.Alloftheabove(上面) |
小题2:Inthesentence“Afterall,meetingstrangersmeansfacingtheunknown.”,theword“unknown”means_____.A.withoutsomebodyknowingB.withoutsomebodylikingC.unfriendlyD.unpleasant小题3:Howdoyoufeelmorecomfortablewhenyouarewithnewpeople?A.ShakehandswithothersB.Acceptyourselfasyouare,andputtheotheraseaseC.Don’ttalkwiththosewhodon’tlike.D.Walktallandstraight.