TheearlyyearshasarightnessofyoungmenthematrimonyinAlaskaplaceintheUnitedStates,growingaftergettingmarried,hiswifediesbecauseIamdifficulttoproduce,leavingonekid. 　　Hisfavourlife,andthenbeoccupiedinwatchingthehouse,becausenoonehelpstolookafterchild,trainadog,thatdogclevernessobedient,canlookafterakid,bite著milkbottletonursewithmilktodrinkforkid,bringupakid. 　　Oneday,thehostgooutgoto,callitlookafterakid. 　　Hearrivedanothercountry,can'tcomebackonthatdaybecauseofmeetingheavysnow.Thesecondgeniusrushthroughtogohome,thedoghearsnoisetogreethostimmediately.Heopensanofdoorstosee,isabloodeverywhere,raiseheadonhoping,isalsoabloodonthebed,thekidismissing,thedogisnearbyandreadilyisingalsoablood,thehostdiscoverthiskindofsituation,thinkthedoggoesintoaction,eatingupakid,havingafitunder,pickedupknifecometooncethe著dog'sheadsplit,killingadog. 　　Hearthekid'svoiceafterandsuddenly,andthenseehimdescendtoclimbtocomeoutfromthebed,the於istostarttoembraceakid;Althoughthebodycontainblood,donotgethurt. 　　Heisverystrange,don'tknowtoiswhathappenedactually,seeingagainadogbody,themeatoftheleghadno,havingawolfside,theinsideofstillbitesthemeatofdog;Thedogsavedlittlehost,butwaskilledonebymistakebythehost,thiswasreallythemostastonishingmisconstructionofworld. 　　Note:MisunderstandofmatterisapersonusuallyBedoingnotunderstand,havenorational,impatience,beinneedofathinkingandcannotmakeallowancefortheotherpartyinmanyways,self-reflectiononeself,theaffectionextremelyexcitesofcircumstanceundertakeplace. 　　Misunderstandinthebeginning,namelyalwaysthoughtedoftheotherpartyofthousandwrongtenthousandwrong;Thereforewillmaketomisunderstandtosinkmoremoredeep,makenot 　　人生哲理故事之二《钉子》 　　有一个男孩有著很坏的脾气,于是他的父亲就给了他一袋钉子；并且告诉他,每当他发脾气的时候就钉一根钉子在后院的围篱上. 　　第一天,这个男孩钉下了37根钉子.慢慢地每天钉下的数量减少了. 　　他发现控制自己的脾气要比钉下那些钉子来得容易些. 　　终于有一天这个男孩再也不会失去耐性乱发脾气,他告诉他的父亲这件事,父亲告诉他,现在开始每当他能控制自己的脾气的时候,就拔出一根钉子. 　　一天天地过去了,最后男孩告诉他的父亲,他终于把所有钉子都拔出来了. 　　父亲握着他的手来到后院说：你做得很好,我的好孩子.但是看看那些围篱上的洞,这些围篱将永远不能回复成从前.你生气的时候说的话将像这些钉子一样留下疤痕.如果你拿刀子捅别人一刀,不管你说了多少次对不起,那个伤口将永远存在.话语的伤痛就像真实的伤痛一样令人无法承受. 　　注：人与人之间常常因为一些彼此无法释怀的坚持,而造成永远的伤害.如果我们都能从自己做起,开始宽容地看待他人,相信你一定能收到许多意想不到的结果.帮别人开启一扇窗,也就是让自己看到更完整的天空.