"Helicopterparenting"describesastyleofraisingchildrenwhereparentsareover
protectiveanddotoomuch．Itdescribesparentswhowatchovertheirkidsathomeandontheplaygroundlikeahelicopter．Today，moderntechnologyallowsthesehelicopterparentstowatchoverfromevenfaraway．（36）___
JulieLythcottwroteabooktitledBreakFreeoftheOverparentingTrapandPrepare
YourKidsforSuccess．Inherbook．shegivesreadersacloserlookatthisparentingstyle．（37）___
JulieLythcottsayssheexperiencedtheeffectsofhelicopterparentingfirsthandwhensheworkedasdeanoffirstyearstudents．（38）___Butmanywereunabletotakecareofthemselves．Heywereturningtoparentsconstantlyforguidance，forproblemsolving，tohavethemmakethechoiceaboutsomething．
Sowhatcanparentsdoiftheywanttobreaktheover-parenting"helicopter"cycle？（39）___◆Stopsaying"we"whenyoumeanyoursonoryourdaughter．Alltoooftenaparentwouldsay"weareonthetravelsoccerteam．"Well，no，yoursonisoryourdaughteris．
◆Stoparguingwithalloftheadultsinourkids？lives．Youneedtoteachyourkidstoadvocateforthemselves．
◆Stopdoingyourkids'homework．
◆（40）___Teachthemtocrossthestreet，makeameal，andremembertoputtheirownitemsintheirbackpacks，whichbecomesabriefcaseoneday．
Whenkidshavealltheskillstotakecareofthemselves，theywillbepreparedfor
A．Fourwaysareofferedtostopwatchingoveryourchildren．
B．Shealsoexplainswhyparentsshouldstopit．
C．It'sagoodideatoencourageyourkidtodothethingshecanbyhimself．
D．Theycangivetheirchildrendirectionsatanymomentfromanywhere．
E．Buildyourkids'skills．
F．Thefreshmenwereverysmartandaccomplishedonpaper．
G．Yourkidiseagerformorefreedom，butshouldyougiveittohim？
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