Ifsomethinghappensthatmakesyoufeelangrytrythesethingstohelppreventangryfeelingsfrombuildingupinside.
1)Exercise.Goforawalkworkoutorgotoplayasport.Lotsofresearchhasshownthatexerciseisagreatwaytoimproveyourmoodanddecreasenegativefeelings.
2)Writedownyourthoughtsandemotions.Youcanwritethingsinlotsofwaysforexampleinajournalorasyourownpoetryorsonglyrics(歌词).Afteryou’vewrittenitdownyoucankeepitorthrowitaway—itdoesn’tmatter.Theimportantthingiswritingdownyourthoughtsandfeelingscanimprovehowyoufeel.Whenyounoticelabelandreleasefeelingsastheyshowupinsmallerportionstheydon’thaveachancetobuildupinside.
3)Thinkdeeplyorpracticedeepbreathing.Thismethodisthebestoneamongallthetipsifyoudoitregularlyasit’smoreofanoverallstressmanagementtechniquethatcanhelpyouuseself?controlwhenyou’remad.Ifyoudothisregularlyyou’llfindthatangerislesslikelytobuildup.
4)Talkaboutyourfeelingswithsomeoneyoutrust.Lotsoftimesthereareotheremotionssuchasfearorsadnessbeneathanger.Talkingaboutthemcanhelp.
Theseideascanbehelpfulfortworeasons:
1)Theyhelpyoucooldownwhenyoufeellikeyourangermightexplode.Whenyouneedtocooldowndooneormoreoftheactivitiesinthelistabove.Thinkoftheseasalternatives(可选择的办法)totakinganactionyou’llregretsuchasshoutingatsomeone.Someofthemlikewritingdownfeelingscanhelpyoureleasetensionandbeginthethinkingprocessatthesametime.
2)Theyhelpyoumanageangeringeneral.Whatifthere’snoimmediateproblemtosolve—yousimplyneedtoshiftintoabettermood?Sometimeswhenyou’reangryandyouhavenobetterwaytomanageangeralthoughyouhavetriedyourbestyoujustneedtostopdwellingonhowmadyouare.
1.Thepassageismainlyabout________.
A.somewaysthathelpsolveimmediateproblems
B.howtodealwithangryfeelings
C.somekindsofangerthatpeopleoftenfeel
D.howtomanagetension
2.Ifyouwritedownyourfeelingsyoumay________.
A.createsomepoetry
B.improvethewayyoufeel
C.makeyourmoodworse
D.discoversomethingabou